The 10 Commandments Of Marriage. | The Truth After Dark (Part 2)

Azar Farideh (0:00)

Okay, so moving on.

Actor Brandon T. Jackson posted a video encouraging men to stop masturbating and urge both men and women to abstain from sex while waiting for God to bring the right person into their lives. Do you agree that men should stop masturbating?

Paul Pierce (0:17)

It's safer.

I can't lie, it's safer. That's probably the safest things you could do as a man.

Azar Farideh (0:24)

Yeah, I can agree with that.

Paul Pierce (0:25)

To be honest with you. So you gotta get rid of that urge, and you don't want it to be so long, and you don't want it to be with, then go ahead, because it's definitely safer.

Azar Farideh (0:34)

I agree. I think there's people who are addicted to porn and masturbation these days, and it's very bad, and I think if you're in that situation, then yes, you should probably try to stop. But I think that if you're choosing between-

Paul Pierce (0:44)

I mean, this is like something every day, and you always have to watch it. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. If it's addicted, then yes. That's terrible.

Azar Farideh (0:49)

But if you're choosing between cheating potentially, or going out and having sex with a random woman that you could possibly get pregnant, or some shit like that, masturbate instead. But as a woman, I think masturbation can desensitize your clit.

And it's really important not to masturbate that much because like vibrators are strong. And then you could be using that vibrator so much that when it's time to have real sex, you can't even get there.

That happens to a lot of women. So it's like, stop, put the rose down and let that vagina breathe, because all that masturbation is going to desensitize that clit.

Paul Pierce (1:26)

100%.

Azar Farideh (1:27)

And when it's time to really have sex, you just can't, you can't get it going.

Paul Pierce (1:30)

Right, right.

Azar Farideh (1:31)

You know what I mean? A man can't compare to a vibrator.

Paul Pierce (1:35)

No, that's too intense.

Azar Farideh (1:38)

It's so intense, but it's just like anything else. It will make your clit lose the sensitivity in it.

Paul Pierce (1:43)

Damn.

Azar Farideh (1:45)

So yeah, if you have an addiction, I would say like, stop.

Paul Pierce (1:48)

You gotta see somebody.

Azar Farideh (1:49)

Do you think you could be with someone who had a masturbation addiction and a porn addiction?

Paul Pierce (1:55)

I think if you did, you probably would hide that, huh?

Azar Farideh (1:58)

I mean, I think some people do hide that.

Paul Pierce (2:01)

When people have certain addictions, they hide it. So like, how would I even know?

Azar Farideh (2:05)

I mean, you start to know when someone has an addiction. How?

Paul Pierce (2:08)

You don't see them do it all the time.

Azar Farideh (2:09)

Yeah, but you start, when you're with someone long enough, you'd be like, oh.

Paul Pierce (2:14)

How?

Azar Farideh (2:15)

I mean, I was with someone with an addiction and I started to realize after like a year, like, oh, and you see little shit and you peep little things and you start to, it wasn't a porn addiction, but you start to see stuff and you're like, oh, you're a gambling addict.

SPEAKER_3 (2:31)

You know, I'm like, okay, I got you.

Paul Pierce (2:33)

That's clear though, gambling.

Azar Farideh (2:35)

No, it wasn't. It was very hidden for years.

Paul Pierce (2:37)

Yeah, because they hide it.

Azar Farideh (2:38)

That's what I'm saying, but you start to figure it out. It's not that crazy.

Paul Pierce (2:42)

That's not a make or break for me, actually. Like if you have an addiction to masturbation.

Azar Farideh (2:45)

But what if they're not trying to have sex with you, they'd rather masturbate? Because that's what happens with, so people are complaining about that. People have masturbation addictions and they want to like, they rather, like they're manned, they cast their man masturbating, but not want to have sex with them.

Paul Pierce (3:00)

Yeah, that's an insult to the partner then.

Azar Farideh (3:02)

Right. Speaking of sex, 5e0, is that how you say it? 5e0, 5 foreign?

Paul Pierce (3:12)

Yeah, yeah, something like that.

Azar Farideh (3:14)

He's a rapper.

He's been speaking out openly about his faith journey. So he's obviously been on a journey. He got baptized earlier this year and he's been sober. And the other day he tweeted one of his toughest battles saying, no sex before marriage is by far the hardest part of my walk with Jesus.

Paul Pierce (3:35)