Mica Miller Died — Then JP Married a Woman Whose Husband Also Died

SPEAKER_1 (0:01)

This is HiddenKillers Live with Tony Brueski and Robin Dre.

Tony Brueski (0:08)

JP Miller spent months standing at a pulpit, painting himself as this heartbroken martyr, fighting tooth and nail to save his marriage.

Robin Drake (0:16)

And as he does, his voice gets really high like this because he's out of his fucking mind.

Tony Brueski (0:20)

But behind the scenes, records and family members describe affairs, betrayal and revenge porn. And the kicker? Barely a year after Mica's tragic death, there he is, on a beach, marrying a woman named Suzie Skinner, whose husband was a paraplegic who somehow ended up at the bottom of a swimming pool at Market Commons. The same sort of area and place where John Paul's church happens to be. That's nothing to see here. John Paul shows up right after the death. That's nothing to see here. He's not been charged with any crimes and related to any of these things, by the way.

Hey, local police department, do your fucking job.

Robin Drake (1:02)

I wonder if you have life insurance policy.

Tony Brueski (1:04)

Now she's right beside him. She's leading worship at his pop-up church services while he waits for a federal cyber-stalking trial. You're sitting there watching this and you're thinking, okay, how?

How are you there? Why are you there? Today, Shavaun Scott, psychotherapist, is with us. To break down the gut-wrenching hypocrisy of the narcissist and the sheer mental gymnastics it takes for a woman to become the new supply, which is literally what she is. And if you know about narcissists and narcissism and borderlines and all that sort of shit, you understand the supply. He exchanged Mica for her. JP claimed he was desperately fighting to get his wife back, yet he was already allegedly cheating on her and posting her private, humiliating photos online for the world to see. In a mind like this, Shavaun, in the clinical mind of a monster like this, what does love actually mean? Is there love for someone like this or is it just all pure ownership and control and I got you underneath my claws?

Shavaun Scott (2:09)

I think you nailed it and love is always a difficult word for me because it means a simple word, four letters, and it means so many different things to everybody and it's vague and we all do it differently. Attachment, I like the word attachment. We all attach to people, we attach to our animals and we can have healthy attachments and really sick and twisted attachments and I think this guy does sick and twisted attachments and calls it love. But a wife to him is a possession and you're right, the wife meets his ego needs and he wants an attractive, beautiful woman that stands up there leading worship, right? There's a pattern and the music and this all feeds his ego and it makes him feel powerful and he picks women who at least go along with the idea initially that they're to submit to him.

He calls this kind of attachment love and it's not in any way, I think, what we would say is a healthy thing.

Tony Brueski (3:18)

Mica died in April of 24 and then by June of 25, he's already locked down a new wife and the allegations, as we saw on the doc and as we've seen from a lot of reporting and investigating of this, it looks like the affair was going on while Mica was still alive, while he, by the way, is telling everyone, she's really sick, I'm doing everything I can. If she gets her medicine, she's going to be okay, but I can't get it to her. If you're there and you're loving your wife and you're trying to get her better, and she's getting out of your grips and she's falling to places where it's just, it's not going to be good for her and you really care about her more than anything in the world and you just want her to be well, then why are you cheating with a paraplegic congregant's wife in your church while doing that simultaneously? I mean, why do guys like this, why are they pathologically incapable of sitting alone with their own thoughts?

Why the aggressive rush to find the new mirror for his ego?

Shavaun Scott (4:25)

I think he definitely fits in the category and people will debate if addiction is the right word or if compulsion is a better word.

But let's just use s-addiction for this guy and somebody commented they'd love to see his digital footprint. So would I.

Terabytes. Yeah, I think it would be really enlightening about how he operates internally. And this is a person that's, you know, we talk about, is there hope for change? I like to hold hope for people. I really like to, but I'd say prognosis poor in this case. It doesn't look real good that this kind of behavior is ever going to stop for him, because clearly he's not motivated to do anything different. He keeps repeating patterns from what we see.