Drea Nicole & Lex P Discuss Marriage, Getting Cheated On, & ATL Strip Clubs (Part 2)

Shannon Sharpe (0:00)

Would y'all bring a third into your thing, into your relationship, like, just for a night or something?

Drea Nicole (0:04)

I don't like coochie. Keep that shit away from me. And so, see, when I was younger, I used to, like, I had a girlfriend before.

Lex P (0:11)

Okay.

Drea Nicole (0:12)

So, I don't know. I be saying, once I get married, and me and my ex have, like, talked about this before, like, I don't know.

You might be open to it. Maybe, like, a little girlfriend or something. When I get older, I don't know.

Shannon Sharpe (0:24)

Like, so an extra girlfriend for both of y'all?

Lex P (0:27)

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Why is he your ex right now? Cause it's clear that you still have something there.

Drea Nicole (0:33)

Oh, wow. Look, look.

I think, I feel like we just were not in alignment with the things that we wanted currently.

Shannon Sharpe (0:44)

Which is what?

Drea Nicole (0:45)

Which is, like, where the fuck is the ring, Okay. That's just how I feel at this point, when it comes to me and him. And I feel like, you know, he is marriage minded. He wants to get married, all of those things. But I think he has been, like, jaded, like most men in a lot of, from previous relationships and stuff. So I just think he's apprehensive. And he's really big, too, on, he already has a kid. So he doesn't want to have another kid without being married first. Cause he's like, I don't want to be no two-time baby daddy.

So I'm like, okay, I respect that. So where the ring in? Cause I'm also ready to pop babies out. Yeah. So we just, you know, not in a line.

Shannon Sharpe (1:29)

So will you give him an ultimatum? Like, we're going to be getting married or we're not going to be together?

Drea Nicole (1:33)

Ooh, well, I don't feel like I gave him an ultimatum, but that's why we're broken up. Cause we just not on the same page. And I feel like he know where we stand with it. So.

Lex P (1:44)

I feel like for you, she built something right here. And when you build something with somebody and you have a history and it's like you comfortable and it's like, damn, I don't want to tear it all down and start all the way over. And then that's a whole nother process. That's a whole nother five years for something else. Yeah.

And it's like, you want it to work. It just feels like, but you just not sure. But then it's like, damn, if I could start something new and start building somewhere else, damn, to start the rebuild is a process.

Drea Nicole (2:18)

But do you really feel like you should stay for that reason? Because then you do have situations to where women get out of long term relationships and they end up meeting the love of their life and get engaged in like a year.

Lex P (2:29)

Like she said, her friend. That was living like that's French.

Shannon Sharpe (2:32)

She has an old baby daddy, he's this, that, that. She left him, was like, I'm not dating, whatever. Went on one day, engaged.

Lex P (2:39)

Because the thing is, when you break up with somebody, you have that initial of like, I need to be with somebody.

You like, you make a mistake. You can make a quick mistake. You know what I'm saying? Because you resented that person now, and now you looking for something quick, then I'm, oh, I found somebody quick. Now it's a mistake.

SPEAKER_4 (2:58)

But that's not always the case though, either.

Lex P (3:00)

Because also like- A lot of people do that.

Shannon Sharpe (3:02)

But no, a lot of people do that, but people, she like took a break for like a year.

Lex P (3:06)

Yeah, a year.

Shannon Sharpe (3:07)

From dating in general. And then she literally was like, I'm so comfortable alone, I don't even want to date. Like, I don't want to, I don't even care to be with nobody. And then boom, it hit her in the face type thing. You know, because you do hear those stories about women and then boom, they're with the next man. It's like, wow, you're doing all of this. You're ready to marry. You're not playing games with me or whatever. I don't know. I don't know with men. I don't know how much time you let a man slide with stuff. If you want something he's not willing to give it to you, then do you let it go?