1616 - Valerie Started Swinging, Became a Unicorn and is Now in an Open Relationship

Valerie (0:00)

Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Strictly Anonymous Podcast.

Kathy Kay (0:05)

Conversations with online strangers.

Valerie (0:08)

We place ads online.

Kathy Kay (0:10)

The Craigslist is definitely like the gift that keeps on giving.

Valerie (0:12)

Real people respond. You go to Singapore or Thailand, you can't not do it. The temptation is just too much. Motto of the show, let your freak flag fly.

Kathy Kay (0:27)

Probably the only good advice I'll ever give you is to re-hide your whips and change.

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Valerie (2:42)

Okay.

Kathy Kay (2:42)

Today I have on, Valerie is so interesting. She's got a really interesting story. I mean, this was a woman who like, all her life was pretty vanilla. She was married once for a couple of years, but she had some kids and she was like dating here and there, but nothing too crazy. And she had like this friend who one day invited her to a swingers club. Now I get the backstory about why a friend would even invite you to a swingers club. I mean, most of us have never had a friend invite us to a swingers club, but she explains how and why that happened. And then what happened the first time, she went to the swingers club. And then the second time, and then the third time, and then all the other times she did. She wound up finding out that she was very into women, and she hooked up with couples, and she was very much into being watched and seeing people have sex. And she got super into the lifestyle, and she explains all the things that she did. I mean, she was like fully into the lifestyle, meeting all kinds of people. Then she wound up really connecting with a specific couple, and wound up hooking up with them, having threesomes, foursomes with them, and they wind up being a little polly. She started having feelings with the guy, and wait until you hear about their relationship. I need to get his girl on the podcast, okay? Because she goes into what was the dynamics of that whole throuple they were having was super interesting. She was the unicorn, okay? But she winds up at the end of the story and at the end of the call with the guy, and the other woman's not there. So we do hash that out a bit at the end. That is a little complicated, and like I said, when you find out about the other woman in the story, it's super interesting. I'm gonna try and get her on. But anyway, she winds up with the guy, and she talks about how that happened, and now they are in a very open relationship in the lifestyle. He's been in the lifestyle for a long time, so that is where she stands now. Her whole story from beginning to end is fascinating, and she did send me in pictures. So you wanna see pictures of Valerie? I have anonymous pictures of Valerie on my Patreon, patreon.com/strictlyanonymouspodcast.