The Slow Burn vs The Spark
It's Me, Tinx
October 9, 2026
Today, I am holding a bit of scientific experiment. I am laying out two sides, weighing all options and figuring out the pros and cons of the eternal chemistry debate...the slow burn vs the spark. I can't wait to hear what you all have to say! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company.
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What is up, you guys? Welcome back to the pod. Happy Friday. How is everybody doing? I am currently in Santa Barbara for Chloe's wedding. I love Chloe so much. She's one of my nearest and dearest friends, and I'm so excited for her wedding. I absolutely love her fiance Doyle. I absolutely love him. And I have spoken about this before, but I'm picky about who my friends marry, who my friends date, and I have very high standards for my friends, maybe even higher standards for my friends that I have for myself. And when Doyle came into Chloe's life, I just thought, wow, you get it. You see what an absolute gem she is, like what an amazing person she is, what an amazing friend, how funny she is, you love her, all of her. And I just, that is the best, that is the best type of wedding to go to, is when you're just so ecstatic for your friend because they have found someone who loves them for them. And I'm just very excited. Santa Barbara is also beautiful. Haven't been in ages. When I used to live in LA, I would drive, I would do a day trip. I would drive with my friends and we would just go and have coffee and walk around. And I don't know, it was a different time in my life. I had a lot more free time, I guess. And I would just stick around and go to Santa Barbara for the day. I used to be obsessed. Like I would go on the weekends. I just absolutely love it. It's so gorgeous. And I'm very excited. I'm with Ashley. We're sharing a room. Ashley's like my favorite travel buddy. I just love her so much. It was her birthday last week and we went to Malibu. And I don't know, it's just so nice. My LA friends, it's so nice to see them. I know I'm a broken record, but I do really love LA. And I don't know, something about not living here has made me love it so much more and appreciate it, even though it's been a total heat wave.
And I've been having just the best time this week. Really, I have. Guys, I think I want to redo my boobs and get them bigger. Is that crazy? I want to go see my doctor again. And I just, I don't know, I don't know. Okay, tell me if I'm crazy, but I am considering it. Also, I love LA because all my doctors are here. I love my, just like my normal doctor. In England, we call it a GP. Do you call it that here?
Anyway, yeah, I just have my GP. I have my gyno, I have my boob doctor, like all the people are here. So I love living in both. And you know what I also decided? I don't have to make a choice. I travel a lot for work. I can bop back and forth, and I can love multiple cities. It's not like pledging allegiance to one city for the rest of your life.
Clearly that ship has sailed for me. So speaking of cities that I love, I'm going to Miami next week, which I'm so freaking excited. There's something about Miami that just absolutely heals me. And I am going for a little work thing, but I thought why not stay a couple extra days and just soak up the sun. I had been considering living in Miami for January, but now I'm kind of like, I have, you know, I have all my friends in LA, maybe I should just do LA in January again and redo my boobs. Is that crazy? Oh my God. If you've gotten two boob jobs, can you please write to me and just tell me, is this absolutely insane or is it normal? I hear that actually a lot of people redo their boobs because like you don't know the size you want. And then once you have them, you're like, you kind of have more of an idea. Anyway, I digress. Okay, my episode today is a little bit selfish because I have this question in my mind and I have never, by the way, I'm having the nicest coffee from Verve. We don't have a Christina's Cafe set up in LA, so I get my coffee every morning, which is fun. But I also forget how it's like a whole mission. You know, in New York, it's easy because you just run out and you grab something and whatever, it's quick. And in LA, it's get into the car, go drive to the coffee, whatever. But I am having the nicest coffee from Verve. I actually got two because I'm so tired. I took so much melatonin last night.
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