The ONLY Dating & Relationship Advice You'll Ever Need in 2025 | Thais Gibson PT 1 (Fan Fave)

Lisa Bilyeu (0:01)

Evening, buyer's remorse.

Thais Gibson (0:03)

Buy a new car, I'll be moving in.

Let's get started. Sorry, I think there's been a mistake. I bought it from Carvana.

Lisa Bilyeu (0:11)

You what? Yeah, great price.

Thais Gibson (0:12)

I even have seven days to love it or return it. So there's no...

Lisa Bilyeu (0:15)

No, no buyer's remorse. More like buyer's rejoice.

Thais Gibson (0:20)

I guess I'll let myself out. Congratulations.

Lisa Bilyeu (0:23)

I mean it. Buyers rejoice. Buy your car today on Carvana.

Thais Gibson (0:27)

Limitations and exclusions may apply. See our seven-day return policy at carvana.com.

Lisa Bilyeu (0:30)

What up, ladies? This is your homie Lisa Bilyeu here. And today I want to talk about love and relationships and compatibility. Now, I've been with my husband for 22 years. We've actually been married for 22 years. We've been together for 25 But before I met him, I truly wondered what the hell was wrong with me. Why could I never be enough? Why am I not pretty enough to keep the guy? What on earth do I have to do in order to make sure that the guy doesn't leave me? And then what ended up happening was I was falling for the same types of guys and finding myself in these repetitive toxic patterns where I found myself chasing after people who actually didn't even show up for me. Now maybe that sounds familiar. Or maybe you're just freaking tired of bending over backwards for somebody because you want to be loved and you just feel like that you're barely even enough for them. Well, my homie, buckle the hell up because today we are flipping the damn script and putting you back in the damn driver's seat of your life. Don't you ever, ever let anyone tell you that you're not enough. Don't you ever negate the value that you bring to the table. Don't ever dismiss how amazing you can be when you set your mind to it. But how the hell do you take the reins when you believe so deeply that you are not enough for the person that you love? Well, today I've got the queen of relationship breakthroughs herself. Thais Gibson is in the house and she's freaking genius at uncovering the hidden forces that are your attachment styles, which is your subconscious programming that literally sneaks into your mind on the daily and ends up running the damn show. Now in part one, we talk about your attachment style and how it's actually like your GPS at leading you, unfortunately, sometimes to heartbreak. This isn't anything to blame, but you have to actually understand what type you are to make sure you don't fall into the damn trap. Now, ladies, you know I'm here to care about you and love you, and oh my god, I really do. But also I'm here to tell you the damn truth about how we hold ourselves back. 2025 is about being honest and giving you the tactics that you actually need to live the life that you want. And the truth is that if you don't understand and do the work about what attachment style you have, you cannot change. And so that attachment style is going to live with you forever and it's going to keep showing up no matter what relationship you find yourself in. So while I say it with such heart and love, my homie, you need to listen to this episode with open eyes and ears so that you understand how you keep being in this pattern. It wasn't until I actually started to do the work myself, figure out who I was, why I keep showing up the way I do. And that was how I ended up being able to pick the right person for me. You can hear me now, guys. I'm almost losing my damn voice because I believe in this so fricking much. And that is why you come to Women of Impact. That is why you listen to this podcast, because you know I am always going to be upfront and honest about how you actually get to the life you want. And we're going to talk about the truth of how we actually self-sabotage ourselves and how you're actually then stuck on repeat. But don't worry, I'm not going to stay there, guys, because you know I'm then going to give you the tactics and tools that you need in order to then make that change. All right, I'm a little out of breath because I'm so amped about this episode. This is about stepping into the person you actually want to be without BSing yourself, without the self-sabotage, and that is how you're going to build your confidence and finally attract the person that you really want to be with. Or, sadly, guys, I'm going to be honest, it's going to highlight the dynamic that you may be in if you're already in a relationship, and it's going to highlight how maybe you guys need to do the work together because right now your attachment styles are the complete opposite, and you are like those repellents, and you're actually repelling each other instead of magnetizing each other. So in this episode, I beg of you, figure out what attachment style you want, and if you're single, now you know who to go for and what to look out for, or if you're in a relationship, you can actually work with them to change your attachment styles in order to have a wonderful relationship, but it ain't going to be easy, and it ain't going to be overnight. So my homie, listen to this episode, put it on repeat. This is just part one. Frickin grab your pen, fricking grab your notebook, because we're gonna dive in right now with Thais Gibson right here on Women of Impact.