The Lifetime Problem With Being A “Nice Guy” - Dr Robert Glover - #739

**Chris Williamson** (0:00)
Hello friends, welcome back to the show. My guest today is Dr. Robert Glover. He's a therapist, coach and an author. Being nice is something many of us aspire to become. After all, who doesn't want to be nice? Well, nice guy syndrome has been ruining the lives of many men for decades. So perhaps we should aspire to be something else. Expect to learn what is actually wrong with being a nice guy, why men become so afraid of putting their needs first, how to stop people pleasing, why nice guys end up being bitter and resentful, whether nice guys actually attract or repel women, and much more. God, I fell in love with this man on this episode. He is so cool and balanced and insightful and supportive. And just, I really love this vibe. He 100% will be coming back on the show. He's a legend, no more missing nice guy. His book is like an absolutely legendary men's work slash psychology in a exploration tome. And God, he's just so incisive, really, really cool. The people that this episode is for and the partners of the people or the sisters or the wives of the people as well.
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