Stop Idolizing the "Cool Girl"

**Alex Cooper** (0:00)
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My life right now is all about finding pants that fit.
And you know, as pregnancy is going along, I don't, I refuse to just wear the same stretchy pants. Like I don't want to be that girl that's like same outfit every single time. So we're trying to make the bump look cute and wear the occasional cute outfit. Obviously, that does not pertain to today. Today, I could barely get it together. But when I tell you I am searching for cute pregnancy outfits, because the minute, here's the thing, the minute I find pants, I buy two sizes up.
A lot of cute pants, though, do have a button. And so I can wear them for about two weeks. And then I sadly just outgrow them. And so the strategy is constantly shifting. But I will say, I think I'm starting to get a hang of how to dress for the bump. I am taking pride in some of my outfits, but it is, you know, it's wild changes, guys. But I am having fun with it. And I am enjoying myself. What else is going on in my life right now? I, oh, I was at my brother-in-law's house the other night with our whole family for his birthday. And all of my nieces and nephews were there. And it was so cute explaining to them that there is a baby in my belly and that they're gonna have a cousin, AKA a new friend coming soon. And my little nephew is like staring at my stomach incessantly with just like pure curiosity and excitement and asking like, what's the name gonna be? And asking if, like if he is allowed to touch my belly, it's all very cute.
And so yeah, anyways, life is life-ing and all is pretty good.
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