Stop Being Shamed Out Of Your Competitive Edge - Mark Bell - #549

**Chris Williamson** (0:00)
Hello, everybody. Welcome back to the show. My guest today is Mark Bell. He's a world record-breaking powerlifter, owner of Super Training Gym, and inventor of the Sling Shot. A lack of support killed more dreams than a lack of competence ever did. There is a modern trend that's trying hard at things, and taking them seriously is uncool. Disincentivizing excellence is one of the worst habits a society can have, and it's time to put a stop to it. And expect to learn why taking a compliment is a skill that many of us don't have, why there is no growth without having a goal you're working toward, whether Mark has ever had a bad day, what it was like to train under the legendary Louie Simmons at Westside Barbell, how crucial the story you tell yourself about life is, and much more. Being shamed out of having a competitive edge is such a dangerous routine for societies and groups of friends to get into. A lot of the time it is jealousy or resentment or fear of insecurity masquerading as satire or piss taking. And I really, really hate it. And I'm very, very glad that we got to have this conversation today. I think it is super important, especially if you're the sort of person that wants to do different things and needs a supportive community around you. This is something that you need to learn. In other news, this episode is brought to you by House Of Macadamias. House Of Macadamias have partnered with 94 independent farmers, forming the single largest producer in the world, which gets them first pick of the highest quality macadamia nuts in the region to make their one-of-a-kind snacks, like vegan, paleo and keto-friendly chocolate dipped macadamias. They really took their time to get these right with over two years of taste testing. 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