Redefining success, money, and belonging | Paul Millerd (The Pathless Path)

**Paul Millerd** (0:00)
Take three hours during a workday, has to be during a workday, block off your schedule, sneak out. People can pull this off. Go for a walk without a destination, or do something from your childhood that you used to do all the time. Did you used to play basketball? Did you used to paint? Did you used to play an instrument? And just pay attention.
What is emerging? Do you feel bad for sneaking out of work? Where does that bad feeling come from? What does that mean about your definition of work and what work means to you? A lot of people have never really thought about, like, why do you work? People say money.
Okay, that's fine. But like, what else? Like, why? Are you trying to be a good person? Do you see a good person as somebody that works every day? Maybe. These are a lot of scripts people grow up with. You're really just creating this space to get in touch with, like, how do I actually feel about work? How do I get to know myself more? Are there things that I've lost touch with that really bring me alive?

**Lenny Rachitsky** (0:59)
Today my guest is Paul Millerd. Paul is the author of The Pathless Path, Imagining a New Story for Work and Life. His book is getting a lot of traction within the tech community because it explores a different way of living, essentially breaking free of the default path for your work and your life that we all basically start on. What Paul describes in his book is almost exactly the path I took to figure out this very weird and wonderful work that I do now with the newsletter and podcast. And because of that, I think this is an important conversation to have because it may inspire you to explore a different path in your own life. In our conversation, Paul explains what the pathless path is, how to go about exploring your own pathless path, how to address fears we all have around money and prestige and safety that keep us on the default path, plus tons of stories and examples and very tactical advice for thinking about exploring a new direction in your own life.
With that, I bring you Paul Millerd after a short word from our sponsors.
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