Orgasm Queen: Do This For 20 Minutes Before Having Sex & Have Sex With Them Like When You First Met! I Never Orgasmed Until He Tried This!

Susan Bratton (0:00)

Nobody even knows there's over 20 kinds of orgasms that you can have. There's, that's a one and done. But then there's, that's the queen of orgasms. And to achieve that, there are very specific techniques that work, and it's not what you see on porn.

Steven Bartlett (0:30)

Dr. Susan Bratton is a world-renowned sex specialist and best-selling author of over 30 books and programs.

SPEAKER_3 (0:35)

And for over two decades, her expertise has empowered millions to master pleasuring techniques, bedroom communication, and unlock their true sexual potential.

Steven Bartlett (0:43)

Why did you focus on sex as a career?

Susan Bratton (0:45)

Well, I was 12 years into our marriage. We had a beautiful daughter, gorgeous home, but I never had an orgasm from intercourse. And we thought there was something wrong with me. But this is not unique. So many of us have had problems with sex. And once we got some skills, it just lit our sex life on fire. So here are 48 of my best sex techniques. Number one. Number two, you have to... Number three, it's something that I love to teach men. And then there's these toys that I want to show you.

Steven Bartlett (1:17)

What is that?

Susan Bratton (1:17)

This is a device that no one's ever seen before.

Steven Bartlett (1:21)

Wow.

Susan Bratton (1:22)

Doesn't that feel so good?

Steven Bartlett (1:23)

Susan, this is the first time we've ever done this. We reached out to some of our audience to send us their questions.

Susan Bratton (1:28)

Okay, let's unpack this. And let's start with...

Steven Bartlett (1:36)

Susan, what do you do and why do you do it?

Susan Bratton (1:41)

Well, I teach passionate lovemaking techniques by publishing books and programs and audios. And I do it because my passion is passion. I like to say that my brand of sexual education is heart-connected, conscious, passionate lovemaking, which is very different than transactional sex or sex that looks like pornography.

Steven Bartlett (2:08)

If someone comes to you and they say, I'm struggling with my sex life in some way, or I'm not at my sexual potential. What can you do for me? How would you answer that question?

Susan Bratton (2:17)

Well, I'd say sex is such a vast landscape and people enter into it from so many different directions that often when someone is saying that their sex life isn't as good as they want it to be, I have to ask them, what's it like? What do they want? What's the vision that they're holding for themselves? And often, I recently had a young woman come to me and say, all my friends talk about sex being so great, but I haven't experienced that. And I wonder if I'm asexual because it's just not that good for me. It just seems like it's so fast and hurried and I don't know. I just don't, I'm worried. Maybe something's wrong with me. That's what women think a lot, is they think there's something wrong with them. But remember, I'm not a therapist. So I don't sit in a room with a client and unearth all of the issues that they have. What I do is I author passionate love-making techniques. I teach you how to have really good bedroom communication, how to know what you want and ask for it confidently, have your partner love for you to ask them for what you want, feel good about it, not like they did anything wrong, and then know a whole bunch of pleasuring techniques, how their bodies work, what the possibilities are. Because if you're thinking about sexuality, because sex has been so censored, nobody even knows what's possible.

If I say to someone, you know, there's over 20 kinds of orgasms that you can have, they'll be like, what? And especially men, they think there's one, maybe two. Where women are like, there's 20? They are at least aware that there's more than one or two, that they could have these different kinds of orgasms. And so once you understand the communication piece and you understand the pleasure piece, then you can understand what's possible. And then you can begin to try things.

Steven Bartlett (4:29)

Okay, so you get an email into your inbox, and it's from a woman.

Susan Bratton (4:34)

Yeah.

Steven Bartlett (4:35)

If you had to bet what that question in that email was, and all you know is that it's from a lady called Suzanne, what would your guess be?

Susan Bratton (4:45)

My libido is gone, and I feel really guilty. I feel really bad. I'm not interested in sex. Or there's something wrong with me. I'm unhappy. I'm unfulfilled. I don't feel like what I'm doing is right. That's most common with women.