Men Are Doing Dating All Wrong The Chase Trap

Anderson Cooper (0:31)

You know, the big term of 2024, Anderson, is the Manosphere. And we're all living in the Manosphere now.

Rollo Tomassi (0:54)

Mexico versus the UK, Britain, man.

Welcome to The Rational Male live from Lost Wages. By the way, Mike has informed me that he is going to be watching the NBA game that's going on here today. So he's putting his money where his mouth is. But in the meantime, let's let's start with this good.

SPEAKER_6 (1:46)

When a man cheats is like one person washing hands in different bowls. One person washing hands in different bowls.

But when a woman cheats is like different persons washing hands in one bowl. Ah, blood of Jesus, blood of Jesus. Different person washing hands in one bowl. It's okay, it's okay. Now you know the difference. I will always be here to assist. Right on, professor.

Professor. Two minutes, ma'am.

SPEAKER_7 (2:43)

The harder you get for women, the harder it gets.

SPEAKER_6 (2:46)

Yeah.

SPEAKER_7 (2:47)

It is not the same for men. And I think the thing that bothers me, there is, ladies, a biological reality. And you, we can dance around it as much as we like. I'm not telling you that women aren't smart and can't run the world and all the rest of it. That's not the point. There are realities. We spent the last 15, 20 years pretending they're not. That is a reality. That is very, very real.

There you go.

Rollo Tomassi (3:13)

That is very, very real. The wall is very, very real. Hmm.

I wonder what part of the manosphere that chick is. Oh, wait, no, she's not actually part of the manosphere. She's something else.

SPEAKER_8 (3:25)

Like desirable men, like women like men who other women like. When women go out and compete, they compete against other women. Like you're not carrying a Birkin bag because you think a man's going to look at it and go, wow, what a lovely bag she has. Like if a man thinks that, he's probably gay.

So that's great. It's totally fine. Love having some gay friends. But the truth is like a man has never been like she's attractive, but that choice of bag really isn't right. Like I just don't see a heterosexual man making mate selection that way. So what is it really about? It's about competing with other women. It's about showing themselves as high value. I have high value items. I purchased this because I'm a girl boss or I have a man who bought this for me.

As a sign of his adoration of me. These are all things that you want other women to envy you for. And you compete with men do too. How much can you bench? How much can you squat? How much do you make? What watch do you wear? These are all ways we compete with our same gender or our same people in the dating pool. Now, again, what is she saying here? I don't want a guy who no other women want. I want a guy who lots of women want, and I've got him.

Rollo Tomassi (4:31)

Sounds an awful lot like women want to be with the guy who other men want to be, and other men want to be, and other women want to bang. That's the long-winded way of saying that. So just let me know.

And by the way, we were supposed to have Jim Sexton sometime this weekend. He never got back to us again.

That's the difference between. 50% and 20% body fat. I don't know, man. Which one did you like the best? 20% seems healthy. I would go for women, I would say 18 17 maybe. Like for the average chick, like if you're not a bodybuilder, or you're not like doing-

SPEAKER_10 (5:40)

I guess it all depends on where you're storing the fat, right?

SPEAKER_9 (5:42)

Right.

Rollo Tomassi (5:43)

So I have to explain something to you. The reason is because we had the bikini contest, which I was unable to go to this last, when was it?

SPEAKER_9 (5:52)

Friday? Yeah.

Rollo Tomassi (5:53)

And, but I did see the video and everything, and I was looking at- there was a pretty good spread of like women there, as far as like, you know, body types and stuff. There's some fat chicks there. There was some- we had all shapes, all sizes, all ethnicities and everything else. But I mean, let's just be honest, the chicks who are going to be right around the 18 to 16 percent body fats, you're at a specific advantage in that state. Okay, now, here, I got to give you the preamble for this really quickly.