"I've Caught Psychopaths for 30+ Years" If a Man Does THIS Just Once, You're 750% More at Risk... PT 2

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Lisa Bilyeu (1:13)

All right, ladies, welcome back to Women of Impact. If part one cracked your worldview wide open like it did mine, then brace yourself because things are about to get even more freaking real and more impactful if these tactics are implemented. Now, we heard from the expert and number one Detective Paul Holes. We also heard from Gabby Petito's mom and dug into ways that abuser operate in plain sight. But what comes next is where theory turns into survival. We're talking about the tragic aftermath like the Micah Miller case, when the woman does speak up, she does reach for help and the system freaking basically shrugs. When love bombs turn to handcuffs and it could never happen to me, quote unquote, becomes how do I freaking survive this? This is what you need right now, right here. And this is what we go deep on, the Rex Heuermann case. Guys, I've been following this and this shit is crazy. It's the Gilgo Beach killer and how his wife lived in the murder house for years and didn't know. The real psychology of denial and what happens when a partner's grip on reality is stronger than the facts.

This is one of those things that I bet you, when this woman was 20, she never thought it would happen to her. So that's why this stuff is important. Then we go into the heartbreaking reality of how faith, family and even your own voice can be used against you. And of course, we make sure we talk about how to reclaim your voice and your power piece by piece. That's so important because we're not here to glorify the case. We're here to use the case as a way of defending ourselves down the line.

Then we talk about the step by step tactics to get out safe, build a circle of support and spot the danger before it actually escalates. No matter how quote unquote good, he looks on paper. So if you need a freaking fire lit under your survival instincts, if you know someone who needs to get out or if you just want to stop doubting yourself for good, then stay with me because we're about to dive in right here, right now on Women of Impact.

Okay, so now I'd actually like to move on to another case that has hit the news that's very hot. But I'd actually like to do a bit of a twist on it. So this case is the Rex Heuermann and he's also known as the Gilgo Beach Killer.

Paul Holes (3:29)

Well, with the Gilgo Beach killings, they were obviously homicide victims. Some of the remains were unidentified. Some of the remains had been identified as some women out of the city that were sex workers.

The case was unsolved for a long period of time. And then eventually, through good investigations as well as good forensics, Rex Heuermann was identified and charged and turns out Rex Heuermann is what I would consider to be an intelligent and sophisticated offender. He's an architect. He's a professional.

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Rex Heuermann, I'm an architect.

SPEAKER_2 (4:04)

I'm an architectural consultant.

SPEAKER_3 (4:06)

I'm a troubleshooter.

SPEAKER_2 (4:07)

Born and raised on Long Island.

SPEAKER_3 (4:09)

Okay. Been working in Manhattan since 1987

Paul Holes (4:13)

He was utilizing the online services to lure and isolate his victims.

And the reality is, is people say, well, there's no more serial killers today. Oh, no, there are. But like I keep saying, predators go to where the prey's at. Where's the prey? Well, the sex workers have moved their services online. And I think Rex Heuermann is sort of illustrative of the type of serial killer that we are seeing today, just like cases I worked in the past, whether it be the killers from the 1960s and 70s who were picking up hitchhikers, to Golden State Killer breaking into homes. Now, the killers, the predators are going online. There's also the dating apps, and these predators are in the dating apps. So that's where you have to be careful.