How To Build Genuine Charisma And Confidence - Charlie Houpert - #420

**Chris Williamson** (0:00)
Hello everybody, welcome back to the show. My guest today is Charlie Houpert. He's the founder of Charisma on Command, a podcaster and a YouTuber. Most people wish that they were better communicators, more engaging, more confident and more charming. Charlie runs the biggest Charisma channel on YouTube, Charisma on Command with more than 5 million subscribers and has taught thousands of people how to be more attractive and compelling in their communication. Today, expect to learn the 5 archetypes of charismatic communication, how to greet someone with genuine energy, how to overcome being shy, the principles of communicating attractively to women, how to be better at small talk, how to add more humour into your conversations, why Charlie got his entire family to take MDMA, who Charlie thinks is the most charming communicator on the planet and much more. This conversation is awesome. Charlie is a kindred spirit, despite the fact that he's across the pond. And I'm so glad that I connected with him. You feel our burgeoning romance blossom. Bromance. I meant to say bromance. You feel our burgeoning bromance blossom throughout this entire episode. It sounds like I'm going to go out and see him and spend some time with him in LA later this year. So, yeah, enjoy this. There's so much, so much to take away from this about communication and what it means to live a good life, success. Yeah, it's fantastic. Sit back and enjoy. In other news, this episode is brought to you by Craftd London. They are the number one men's jewelry brand on the planet. Literally, the world's market leader in men's jewelry. Whatever it is that you're looking for, necklaces, chains, pendants, bracelets, rings, and earrings, they have gold and silver custom designs, and the price point is perfect. It's between 20 and 50 pounds or dollars, so it's expensive enough to be nice, but it's not so expensive that you're terrified of wearing it ever. 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