Controlling Husband Is Destroying Their Marriage | Financial Audit

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Callie (1:04)

He told me when I was in Florida that he was going to bed at 8.30, hung up, took his drunk ass over to this female girl's house, hung out with her drunk, drove home drunk, and then wrecked his truck.

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Callie (1:22)

No, there's 12, we're missing a kid.

Nate (1:23)

600 miles I moved to be with this woman and take care of nine kids that are not mine.

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Callie (2:22)

My name is Callie. I'm 46 years old.

Nate (2:24)

I'm Nate, 44, and we're from Atlanta, Georgia.

Callie (2:28)

And this is Financial Audit.

Caleb Hammer (2:30)

Let me tell you, girl, you're freaking out.

I have not struggled with someone before filming. You're freaking out about this intro and everything. This girl, like she's on edge right now. What is happening with you?

Callie (2:43)

I don't leave my house.

Caleb Hammer (2:45)

That's not a good thing. Callie, what do you do for a living at your house?

Callie (2:49)

I am an IT engineer, software support. At your house? Yeah, I work remotely.

Caleb Hammer (2:54)

Oh, you do need to get outside. Something's wrong with you. I'll be honest. I don't think we've left any of that in, but she's like tweaking.

What do you make in this position?

Callie (3:06)

You want monthly, yearly.

Caleb Hammer (3:08)

Yeah, let's get monthly.

Callie (3:09)

Okay, from this job, it's an average, and I know you hate averages, but...

Caleb Hammer (3:14)

No, I don't. I ask for the average.

Callie (3:16)

What are you talking about?

Caleb Hammer (3:17)

Well, that's literally what I ask for.

Callie (3:23)

I don't think so, because whenever you ask someone, you ask somebody what they make, and they're like, well, this week I made this or last month, and then you're like...

Caleb Hammer (3:30)

Well, because that's not an average.

Callie (3:31)

Oh. Okay, we are going to go...

We're going to go...

Caleb Hammer (3:35)

Do you know what an average is?

Callie (3:37)

We're going to go with 5,000.

Caleb Hammer (3:39)

Okay, we're going to go with...

Callie (3:40)

Is that your average? That's accurate. Yes, that's accurate.

Caleb Hammer (3:43)

An accurate average?

Callie (3:44)

Yes.

Now, that's an accurate number. That's the real number. That's monthly, the number. It fluctuates if I have extra overtime. That's why I said there could be an average, but we're going... 5 is the minimum, so let's go with 5 But I have other sources of income. Stop looking at me like that.