A Woman's Guide To Attracting Women - Kezia Noble - #206

**Chris Williamson** (0:00)
Hi friends, welcome back. Those of you who follow me on social media may know that over the weekend, I ruptured my Achilles, my right Achilles, playing cricket, setting off for a quick single, and hit the deck as if I'd been shot, got taken to the RVI A&E in Newcastle. And yeah, the diagnosis is that I've sheared my Achilles off, which is not perfect news. It's gonna be about six to eight months of rehabilitation and walking in a boot. Hopefully, we'll be getting my operation this week. To everyone who has reached out to me, thank you very much. I'm in no pain. It doesn't hurt, which is super, super bizarre. The Achilles tendon is the strongest tendon in your body, and you can literally hang a car off it. So for that to have snapped in half and me not be in any pain without painkillers, seems pretty surprising, but I'm not gonna complain. Yeah, I just wanna get this operation done and then get stuck into the rehab. Obviously, it's an opportunity for growth if I can try and frame it in the right way. The input of any situation is neither good or bad. Really, it's just our judgments about it that make it so. So I'm swimming in stoic philosophy at the moment, as you can see, to hopefully try and make me resilient to the coming months. I'm going to do my absolute utmost to stick to the recording schedule that I promised you that I would. And not only because it's something that I know brings a lot of value to your life, but it's the routine and the creative output that gives purpose to mine. So I will be doing my absolute utmost to continue putting out Modern Wisdom episodes. You know, it's fortunately the sort of thing that I can do from anywhere in the world. From any position, I could even probably do this horizontal if I need to. There may be some missed episodes here and there. If surgery goes in, I'm under general anesthetic. If I'm back and I'm in too much pain, perhaps to be able to record. But I'm going to try and stick to it. So yeah, thank you for helping to keep me accountable by being an audience that I care about and giving me a creative outlet, which is going to be something that will help me to transcend whatever discomfort I'm in, you know? So with that out of the way, on to today's guest. Kezia Noble is a dating and attraction expert for men. Men are really struggling at the moment to attract women. Like, where are all the good men at is a meme that I see getting shared on an almost daily basis by women. Divorces are on the rise and relationships are more transient than ever, so hopefully today Kezia can salvage this car crash of a dating environment. So expect to learn why guys are so scared to speak to girls, how to overcome, approach anxiety, the main errors Kezia sees when men are trying to attract women, how to offset being a good guy, the importance of sexual chemistry and much more. For all of the women that are listening, I am desperately trying to get a hold of Matthew Hussey, who is the leading dating coach for women in the world, but he is proving a little bit elusive at the moment. Perhaps that's because he's got tons of women messaging him and he's not that bothered about me, but I will do my absolute utmost to find someone who is the equivalent speciality for women. But there's tons of interesting insights for both guys and girls that comes out of this episode. I was fascinated to hear all of the common themes that Kezia finds, the failings that they have. And if you're a woman who has been through the receiving end of one of these archetypal car crash situations that Kezia describes today, then let me know. I'm sure that you've got some hilarious dating stories. And I promise I will keep you anonymous if you share them with me and I need to reference them in a future podcast. But for now, it's time to find out how to attract women with Kezia Noble.
What do you do for a job? Describe your job for me.

**Kezia Noble** (4:17)
I'm a dating and attraction expert for men.

**Chris Williamson** (4:21)
Dating and attraction expert for men, so not for women.

**Kezia Noble** (4:26)
That would be the blind leading the blind.

**Chris Williamson** (4:29)
All right, okay, okay, I get that. I've noticed this online upon doing a little bit of research for this. It appears there's a lot of women teaching men to date. Why is that the case? Why is it that women are teaching men to date and not men teaching men to date?