"1 in 20 Are Psychopaths!" THIS Test Will Reveal if the Man You TRUST Is One... | Greg Hartley PT 1

**SPEAKER_1** (0:01)
Mom, can you tell me a story?

**Lisa Bilyeu** (0:02)
Sure. Once upon a time, a mom needed a new car. Was she brave?

**SPEAKER_1** (0:06)
She was tired, mostly. But she went to carvana.com and found a great car at a great price.

**Gregory Hartley** (0:11)
No secret treasure map required.

**Lisa Bilyeu** (0:13)
Did you have to find a dragon?

**Gregory Hartley** (0:14)
Nope, she bought it 100% online, from her bed, actually.

**Lisa Bilyeu** (0:17)
Was it scary? Honey, it was as unscary as car buying could be.

**Gregory Hartley** (0:21)
Did the car have a sunroof?

**SPEAKER_4** (0:22)
It did, actually.

**Gregory Hartley** (0:24)
Okay, good story.

**SPEAKER_1** (0:25)
Car buying you'll want to tell stories about. Buy your car today on Caravana. Delivery fees may apply.

**Lisa Bilyeu** (0:33)
What up, ladies? This is Lisa Bilyeu, and you're listening to Women of Impact. Now, let's just say it completely straight. Every single one of us wants to believe, we'll actually spot the dangerous guy before it's too late. But let's actually be honest, the terrifying truth tells a very different story. Two out of every three women who were murdered, it's not by a stranger in a dark alley, it's not by the guy that's been following them home, they didn't realize, it's by the man who once said, I love you, it's the person, unfortunately, that you may be living with.
Damn, that's such a freaking hard, raw fact, because I live my life with a man who actually takes care of me. And this is why I do the content, because when you have somebody that is kind, that is loving, that is gentle, that is the wind beneath your wings. But when you find somebody that could be dangerous, it becomes the weight around your ankle that pulls you deep, deep into the dark ocean. And that's why I focus on it so much, because if you want to build your confidence, how the hell can you do it if you don't feel good about yourself because someone around you is always bringing you down?
And that's why today we are getting freaking unfiltered and tactical with one of the world's home of the top experts in deception detection. Guys, I've been trying to get this guy on for years, but he is here today. That's right, that's Greg Hartley. He's a body language expert and a behavior expert and a former US. Army investigator. And he's one of four from their behavioral panel. If you know them on YouTube, they're massive, and this guy is one of them. And this episode, he comes in and is just freaking blowing up everything we thought we knew. Because this episode isn't about spotting the vibes, it's about actual survival, trusting your intuition and your ability to read what's actually happening right in front of you. Because being blindsided is not an option, not if you want to build your confidence. So in this episode, you'll hear about the grief muscle and other body cues that scream the truth even when a guy seems totally chill on the outside.
You will be able to spot this once you know it. Then we talk about how to pick apart someone's story so you don't get gaslit or spun by elaborate lies.
Just by the way you position your words and the questions you ask literally unveils the truth without them even realizing it. It's freaking magical. Then you learn the exact stress signals, the blink rates, the vocal fry, and the, quote unquote, the romancer eye contact. What they tell us when someone's actually putting them on show versus what it really means. Now, ladies, this episode is about power. It's about protection and keeping your damn eyes open to the, you know, when you're being targeted because pretending it can't happen to you is not self-love, it's delusion. And I mean, with so much love when I say that because while we may not see it coming, there are moments we can learn. And this is one of those moments right here on Women of Impact. So by the end of this episode, you'll know exactly how to spot quite a quote, Mr. Wrong, when you think he's Mr. Right. So Mahomey, settle in, grab a notebook, grab a cup of tea, whatever your favorite drink is. And let's dive in right here, right now on Women of Impact.
Sixty-three percent. That's nearly two out of three murdered women are killed by a man who once told them he loved them. Not by a stranger in the parking lot, but by the husband, the boyfriend, the ex, the man who kissed her goodbye that morning. So as one of the top experts in interrogation and the deception detection, please teach us how to spot a dangerous man before we actually fall for him and it's just too late. Starting with one of the most infamous killers of our time, Scott Peterson.