Medical Whistleblower: What Your Doctor Doesn’t Know Is Hurting You | Dr Rachel Rubin

**Steven Bartlett** (0:00)
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You rub it inside the walls of the vagina like this.

**Rachel Rubin** (1:09)
Yeah, and just rub it in like you would rub sunscreen on your face. And if you do that twice a week, it makes sex not painful and dry, it helps with arousal and orgasm. It's literally better than Viagra. And it's cheap. And I'm telling you all this as a urologist, that this cream can also help prevent death from urinary tract infections. But more than 75% of people in large database collections are not getting prescriptions for this. And so women are not getting access to generic medications that could save their lives and also really improve quality of life. And so I am filled with rage because people are limiting their ability to have great sex, great health, because they aren't having access to all the information that they could. For example, women are not orgasming as much as men. The data is very clear there. And women come to see me all the time as I'm a sex doctor. And they say, I'm broke and you have to fix me. I'm not orgasming during sex. And I think the majority of problem is education. Women think that orgasm comes from penetration, but their clitoris is how most women orgasm. And yet most women do not know where their clitoris is. And in fact, the word clitoris today in 2026 does not exist in the checklist for what an OBGYN has to learn in their training.

**Steven Bartlett** (2:18)
And as men, what are we getting wrong in heterosexual relationships when we're trying to arouse our partners?

**Rachel Rubin** (2:25)
Well, men are constantly asking about they want their penises bigger, harder, straighter, girthier, lasting longer. But none of that has anything to do with how women experience pleasure and satisfaction in the bedroom. So that's why I'm so loud about these things, because no one is getting good sex ed. Because the basic information is not being shared. And we fundamentally don't give a crap about women's sexual health, about their menstrual cycles, pregnancy, menopause, hormones, pain with sex, libido. But we actually do have a lot of information that we are not using, because everyone forgot to teach your doctor.

**Steven Bartlett** (2:56)
And I want to focus today's conversation on women's health, because I have so many questions and curiosities.

**Rachel Rubin** (3:00)
Right.

**Steven Bartlett** (3:01)
So let's start with the subject of hormones.

**Rachel Rubin** (3:03)
This is going to be so good.

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Dr. Rachel Rubin. Before we started recording, you said a line to me which I found to be very interesting. You said, I'm filled with rage.
Why are you filled with rage?

**Rachel Rubin** (3:55)
I am filled with rage because I do think that people are limiting their ability to have great sex, great relationships, and great health because they aren't having access to all the information that they could. And they're going to see doctors who actually don't know how to help them with these problems.